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Aug 14, 20201 min read

Aging Out Loud Video Series

Chapter #1 "Coming Out" Chapter #2 "What does today's New Old look like?" Informal testing video: " Smoke Detectors" What do you think?...

Aug 11, 20204 min read

The Lover I Used To Be

Sometimes I think about the lover I used to be. Not the fumbling adolescent, in awe and terrified at being alone with a naked female human

Aug 11, 20203 min read

Too Soon Sex

A young male client came to see me recently with a problem. “I had sex with someone on our second date and now she won’t leave me alone.

Aug 11, 202012 min read

The Field of Big Love

Our deepest longing is to be loved. Our deepest fear is that we are unlovable. This primal fear has its roots in our childhood when we are

Aug 11, 20207 min read

Asking For What You Want

Whether you have been taught not to ask for anything, or are afraid you might take the magic out of the moment, discovering...

Aug 11, 20208 min read

Tantric Sex - An Erotic Meditation.

According to Hindu mythology, the sexual and spiritual union of Shiva with Shakti gave birth to the universe. The god Shiva is seen as...

Aug 11, 20206 min read

Just Love. No Agenda.

The best lovemaking happens when we have gone beyond giving and getting, thinking and striving; when we let go of technique and agendas and

Aug 11, 20201 min read

10 Sure Fire Ways To Have A Great Relationship

Learn to appreciate the “not you” in your partner. Be open, interested and curious about who your partner is and what matters to them.

Aug 11, 20208 min read

Rediscovering Desire

Rose is on the red-eye flight back home to San Francisco after making love with her new boyfriend Charlie for the first time.

Mar 1, 20153 min read

Aging Out Loud

Last night I watched the movie Wild with Reece Witherspoon portraying the true story of a young woman, Cheryl Strayed who walked the...